In 1996, Muslim extremists martyred nearly an entire community of Trappist monks in Atlas, Algeria. Thanks to the movie “Of Gods and Men,” many of us are familiar with their story and are familiar too with the extraordinary faith and courage with which these monks, particularly their Abbott, Christian de Cherge, met their deaths.

The last letters of Christian de Cherge reveal a faith and love that is truly extraordinary. In the months leading up to his death, when he already sensed what was to befall him, he wrote a letter to his family within which he already forgave his killers and hoped that they would later be with him in heaven, playing in the sun before God. 

During the massacre, after his first face-to-face meeting with a terrorist leader, who had just beheaded nine people, he prayed: “Disarm me, disarm them.”

In his journals, which are now published, he shares this story:

On the morning of his First Communion, he told his mother that he really didn’t understand what he was doing in receiving the Eucharist. His mother replied, simply: “You will understand later on.”

His journals then trace how his understanding of the Eucharist deepened during his lifetime, especially in the light of his interrelation with Islam and one extraordinary incident in his life. From July 1959 until January 1961, Christian was an officer serving with the French army in Algeria. While there, he befriended a man named Mohammed, a family man, a simple man, and a devout Muslim.

They soon forged a very deep bond. One day, during a military skirmish, Christian was taken captive by the Algerian army. His friend, Mohammed, intervened and convinced his captors that Christian was sympathetic to their cause. Christian was released but, the next day, Mohammed was found murdered, in retaliation for his role in freeing Christian.

This act of selflessness by his Muslim friend, who in effect gave his life for Christian, permanently seared Christian’s soul. It was never far from his mind and his decision, as a monk, to return to Algeria and live in solidarity with the Muslim community at Atlas and remain there until he died, was largely a result of that foundational event.

But this event also deepened his understanding of the Eucharist. The Eucharist doesn’t just make Jesus present, it also makes present his sacrificial death for us. Jesus died for us “and for the many” — but so too did Christian’s friend, Mohammed.

Mohammed gave his life for another and in that sacrifice imitated Jesus’ death and participated in it. Thus, for Christian, every time he celebrated the Eucharist, he celebrated too the gift of Mohammed’s sacrifice for him. His friend, Mohammed, had also shed his blood “for the many.”

At every Eucharist we memorialize the gift that Jesus made of his death, but that memorial also includes the sacrificial gift of everyone who has imitated Jesus’ selfless love and sacrifice. In the Eucharist, the sacrifice of Christ that we memorialize includes the sacrifice of all who have died, however unconsciously, “for the many.”

The Eucharist is a far-reaching mystery with multiple depths and levels of meaning. We don’t ever fully grasp it. But we’re in good company: When Jesus instituted the Eucharist at the Last Supper the Apostles also didn’t really understand what he was doing, as is witnessed by Peter’s protests when Jesus tries to wash their feet.

Jesus’ words to Peter and the apostles are almost identical to those Christian de Cherge’s mother spoke to him when he told her that he didn’t understand the Eucharist: “Later, you will understand.”

When I made my First Communion, I had a childlike understanding of the Eucharist. In my 7-year-old, catechized mind, I believed that I was receiving the real body of Jesus and that, at the Mass where the eucharistic hosts were consecrated, we celebrated the sacrifice of Jesus that opened the gates of heaven for us.

Numerous theology degrees and 60 years later, I know now that what I understood about the Eucharist as a child was correct. But I also know that when those two things — Christ’s real presence and Christ’s sacrifice for us — are unpacked, we find ourselves immersed in an ineffable mystery within which, among other things, all who sacrifice in love for us are also part of the Real Presence.

And so we keep going to Eucharist, knowing that later, we will understand. 

Oblate of Mary Immaculate Father Ronald Rolheiser is a specialist in the field of spirituality and systematic theology. His website is