It's not easy to discern the voice of truth among the many voices that beckon us. Indeed it is difficult even to discern when we are genuinely sincere. Who am I really? What is in my genuine best-interest? Among the many voices I hear, which voice will ultimately bring me life? Which is the voice of God in my life? Countless voices assail us constantly from without: billboards, television, newspapers, magazines, the internet, ideologies, religion, the arts, pop culture, fashion, hype and the lure of celebrity, among others. But it is usually not difficult for us to recognize that we are in fact being assailed by these voices for they make little pretense. Each has an angle: they want our money, our vote, our support, our sympathy, our allegiance, our attention, our participation, our admiration, or something from us. Subtlety is not their virtue, and we are generally not so naïve as to think they have our best interests at heart; though in some cases, like religion, the arts and fashion, their best expressions are for our benefit. But we are not so easily taken in by outside voices. Where we more naïve is with voices that beckon and make truth claims from within. Because these voices are inside us, it is natural to believe that they have our best interests at heart, that they speak for us, that they are the voice of truth.
Among the many voices I hear, which voice will ultimately bring me life? Which is the voice of God in my life?
What are these voices that assail us from within, just as do the many voices from without? Here are a few salient examples: ---The voice of personal grandiosity, ego, self-interest and laziness. We are not altruistic by nature. Thanks to our natural instincts, we are come into this world instinctually prideful, self-centered, narcissistic and concerned first of all with our own well-being, pleasure and comfort. As we grow into maturity we learn that the voice of self-interest is not exactly the voice that calls us to life; but, this side of eternity, that voice never dies and remains inside us always as a voice that is ready to undermine all other voices. ---The voice of wound and rage. Nobody comes to adulthood whole. It is not a question of whether we are wounded but only a question of the what and the where of our wounds. And the voice of wound is speaking always, subtly and not-so-subtly, inside us, calling us to feel distrustful, slighted, offended, angry and vengeful. Nobody is immune. This voice is forever telling us that paranoia, not metanoia, is what leads us to life. ---The voice of emotional and psychological depression. Depression easily disguises itself as depth, as altruism, as holiness, and hence it can fool us by having us believe that this heaviness of spirit is life-giving when, in fact, it is draining our bodies and souls of oxygen and life. The voice of depression is very often confused with the voice of religion because it appears to honor asceticism, other-worldliness, and the cross when, in fact, it doesn't. ---The voice of sentimentality and piety. Sentimentality and piety are very easily mistaken for genuine empathy and genuine devotion. But there is a not-so-subtle difference. In genuine empathy and genuine devotion, the tears we cry are for others; in sentimentality and piety the tears we shed are for ourselves. ---The voice of obsession, of inner "angels" and "demons.” There is a long-standing argument as to what ultimately most influences our behavior: nature or nurture? Genetics or environment? A number of thinkers, including James Hillman, would suggest that what most influences our behavior is neither nature nor nurture, but certain "daimons" within, namely, various "angels" and "demons" inside that assail us, trigger obsessions, and rob us of freedom. Anyone who has ever fallen helplessly and hopelessly in love will recognize exactly what a "demon" or "angel" inside can do. There are few more paralyzing forces in our lives and there are few voices that can so deeply make us believe that a certain person (and only this person) can bring us life. If you are a romantic, this voice will be both the biggest source of energy and the biggest source of grief in your life. And, as bitter experience has shown, it isn't always the voice of life. ---The voice of archetype, genetics, ethnicity and gender. Blood is thicker than water and it is also a very powerful voice inside us that is never fully silent. We do not come into this world as unused photographic paper onto which nothing has yet been imprinted. Rather we enter this life with a powerful DNA, inside both our bodies and souls, within which many things are already indelibly stamped. Our DNA, physical and psychological, remains always a powerful voice inside us and, like the voice of personal grandiosity, it doesn't always have our ultimate best interests at heart. There are no easy answers apposite to dealing with these voices inside us, but, to quote James Hillman, a symptom suffers most when it doesn't know where it belongs! Oblate of Mary Immaculate Father Ronald Rolheiser is a specialist in the field of spirituality and systematic theology. His website is www.ronrolheiser.com.