Recently, I was praying the Liturgy of the Hours. 

The spiritual reading for the day was a passage from St. John Mary Vianney about prayer: “Humanity has a noble task: that of prayer and love. To pray and to love, that is the happiness of men and women on earth.”

He goes on to talk about something that I think about too: what a privilege we have to be able to pray. 

We have the beautiful privilege to talk to the Creator of the heavens and the earth, the One who made all the seas and mountains and planets and stars, and everything that lives. And we can know that the Creator is listening. This will never cease to amaze me. 

We live in a culture that prizes “efficiency.” We can buy what we need to be comfortable and secure. We have technologies that can answer our questions in seconds. It can be tempting for us to think that prayer is “obsolete,” that we don’t really need to pray

But we do need to pray. 

God himself has given us this treasure of prayer, so that we can know him and love him and share our lives with him, both in this world and in the world to come. 

So we need to renew our attention to prayer. We need to put God first, to make our friendship with God our primary obligation. Prayer is our “noble task,” as the saint says. 

Make a time every day when you can set yourself apart from the “noise” of your responsibilities and activities. It doesn’t need to be a long time. Ten minutes is a good start. Just make time to have some silence in your heart so God can speak to you — and so you can listen and speak back to him. 

Getting into that daily habit of silence will help you grow in your friendship with God. You will find yourself more and more aware of his presence, of his love, in your daily life. 

Whenever we hear Jesus praying in the Gospels, he calls God his Father. And he teaches us to pray in the same way.

In every Mass, we hear those amazing words: “At the Savior’s command and formed by divine teaching, we dare to say: Our Father.”

Our baptism makes God’s sons and daughters and gives us that beautiful privilege we have to call God our Father. 

Because we are children of God, the “Catechism of the Catholic Church” tells us that we should pray to him with “filial boldness.” Such a beautiful expression, and it reflects a beautiful truth. 

As children of God, we can talk to our heavenly Father, not out of fear, but out of love. We can talk to him with confidence, with that “filial boldness.” When you pray, pray as a child who knows that you are loved, who knows that your Father has a beautiful plan of love for your life. 

Jesus said whatever we ask for in prayer, if we believe that we will receive it, we will. He said, “Everything is possible to one who has faith.” 

What an amazing promise! Filial boldness means praying with that promise always in mind, praying always with that holy hope — that in everything, Jesus is working for the good of those who love him.

St. John Vianney also encourages us to be bold when we pray. He challenges us to be more intentional in our prayers, especially when we are praying for those we love or things we need in our lives. 

“How often do we come to church without thinking about what we are going to do or for what we are going to ask,” he says. “And yet, when we go to call upon someone, we have no difficulty in remembering why we came. … I often think that when we come to adore Our Lord we would get all that we ask if we asked for it with a lively faith and a pure heart.”

Get into the habit of spending a little time each day, calling to mind the people in your life — your family, friends, loved ones. Pray for their health and happiness. Pray for them to stay close to Jesus and persevere on their journey to heaven. 

And pray for “hard cases,” too. We all have them in our lives. We can ask our Father for miracles, healings, and conversions for us, and for people in our lives. All things are possible for the child of God, so let’s pray with a lively faith and a pure heart!

Pray for me and I will pray for you. 

And may our Blessed Mother Mary teach us to pray as she did — that God’s will be done in our lives, always and in all things. 

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Archbishop José H. Gomez

Most Reverend José H. Gomez is the Archbishop of Los Angeles, the nation’s largest Catholic community. He served as President of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops from 2019-2022.

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